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Air travel while pregnant (and car)

Friday, April 3rd, 2009
Be careful where you go!

Be careful where you go!

Even when you are pregnant life just goes on doesn’t it? Travel can be such a fun thing but sometimes we don’t have much choice. Now you are look a little worried. Let’s check our main options…

Air travel is a big concern. Lets look at it. Obviously you don’t want to travel too late and risk your waters breaking on the flight! Ouch… This sort of thing actually happens. This is why airlines have rules in place, although they usually operate on the honor system and rely on you being truthful :-).
The airlines may want to know your due date, especially for your return flight. Don’t risk flying if you are due in a week or less. It is wise to ask your doctor for a ‘permission to travel letter’ within 72 hrs of your flight.

Some air tips include

  • be wary of any drugs and medicines
  • getting an aisle seat, so trips to the bathroom are easier
  • wear your seat-belt low and under, rather than across your belly
  • be aware of DVT (deep vein thrombosis) and remember to stretch your legs and exercise somewhat
  • minimize walking in the aisles as turbulence can knock you over
  • drink plenty of fluids
  • check the terms on your travel insurance
  • avoid travel to developing nations - too many problems with this
  • take a medical kit and discuss the contents with your doctor; you should include-
    • constipation thrush and hemorrhoids treatments
    • hydration suppies
    • good multivitamins
    • urine dipsticks for measuring glucose

Car travel
You should always wear the seat belt snugly, without slack, but still comfortably as you can. The belt should be fitted underneath your belly, as low as possible and the upper strap should be worn comfortably across the body.
Some women worry about air bags. There seems to be little evidence that they cause harm to baby in the womb. The advice however is to move the front seat as far back as practical.

Remember to drink fluids and have plenty of stops.
Take care and good luck with your travel my lovelies!

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Caesarean Csection Pros and Cons

Friday, March 13th, 2009
This guy turned out ok

This guy turned out ok

Pros and Cons
The “C-Section” or Caesarean birth is getting more and more common and is no longer just an emergency procedure. What attitude should you take towards it? Some women are strong as an ox and others are more sensitive and frail. Which are you? Our view on this depends on whether we see the world as too medicalized. Others strongly recommend the home birth, midwife, natural scenario. Considerations of pain and vaginal tone drive many women’s decisions. It also used to be that once you have given birth with this method you have to stick with it.
The procedure has a long history. Our infamous friend, Julius Caesar, supposedly entered the world this way, possibly providing the name.
Undoubtedly it has also gotten safer over time. What is involved? There is a horizontal incision across the lower portion of the uterus.
A modern caesareans’ scar is below the “bikini line” cosmetically. There is obviously a lot less trauma to the vagina in a C-section birth. Caesar babies tend to be prettier. You probably would be too if your head wasn’t squashed.

Recovering from labor and delivery is somewhat different if you undergo a cesarean section. There are the same pains as your uterus contracts back down to normal size. Usually you are up and walking within 24 hrs. This is uncomfortable but helps relieve the gas build-up. You might expect 3-5 days in hospital. The pain usually fades during this time and you get pain medication.

You shouldn’t lift anything heavier than your baby until you recover.

My sister-in-law claimed she could easily “spit out” an average weight baby. While my sister had two children both caesarean - she wanted to avoid the pain of labour. Don’t forget, with all the advice, in the end its up to you.

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Exercise during Pregnancy?

Wednesday, March 11th, 2009
Not recommended

Not recommended

Hi Girls!
Maybe limbo dancing is out for now but….
You tell me… how much exercise did you do before you were pregnant?
Carrying a baby is a pretty physical thing. Many wonder ….what about my body afterwards?
If you are a supermodel, fine. when the baby’s born the nanny can take full care while you concentrate on the body beautiful. Going to the gym, the beautician, and the cosmetic surgeon if necessary.
Reality: try to eat right and look after yourself emotionally while trying to deal with 3am screaming demands for feeds, a magic laundry basket that seems to never empty.

Ok there are several conditions that can totally mess with exercising:

  • Multiple pregnancy
  • Vaginal bleeding
  • Pregnancy-induced high blood pressure
  • Incompetent cervix
  • Intrauterine growth retardation
  • Ruptured membranes
  • Headaches
  • Chest pain

Yes it’s a good idea to check any exercise program you are considering - Is it appropriate for a pregnant woman.
If not, big deal - take a walk, best with a friend , low impact and keep the gossip flowing and the pace reasonable.
Face it - you’re pregnant , expect that maybe you don’t have the energy. But do try to keep fairly active and in contact with your own interests - just don’t overdo it!

Aunty's favorite, more fun than fish and chips

Aunty's favorite, more fun than fish and chips

Aunty Stretchmark’s Tips and Reminders
One way to check that you are not exercising too hard is: Can you still talk freely? If not ease up.
Don’t let your blood sugar fall too fast. This means easing up on processed foods that can cause a quick crash after an early boost.
I hope you’re eating a well-balanced diet. Usually, pregnancy increases your requirements by 300 calories a day, exercise even more.
Avoid jarring and risky sports. Overheating yourself is also a big no-no. This is another reason I like water aerobics so much.
Oh.. and yes, drink lots and lots of water.

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Sex during pregnancy

Monday, March 2nd, 2009
SEX: NEVER MIND THE BOLLOCKS

SEX: NEVER MIND THE BOLLOCKS

Ok here is a big one… Sex during Pregnancy. Da chicken and da egg.  Most of us like sex. Especially me.  That’s how we get pregnant. Make sense?

Hormones make us want to have sex and you have  plenty of these when you are pregnant. Many of us feel a LOT hornier about now. We also feel a bit guilty and wonder if it can hurt the baby. By the way the penis does not come into contact with the fetus during sex. You baby is safe in the the amniotic sac and protected by strong muscles around the uterus.

So hey, if your pregnancy is a normal one, you can keep doing the bad bad thing right until those waters break.

The second trimester can be the best for sex. The extra blood flow works a bit like viagra.  Guys can be a bit wierd about pregnant sex. Some feel uneasy and others like it, well,  just a bit too damn much. Perverts!

Should we go all Kama Sutra on you? We could draw kinky diagrams on butchers paper. If you have been a plain-vanilla-missionary type of a girl it might be a good time to experiment. You might try on the side or on top or semi supported or oral.  A pregnant girlfriend of mine had her first multiple orgasm the other day.

Some of us arent so lucky. There are conditions that interfere with sex. These can include

  • recent vaginal bleeding or cramping
  • preterm labour
  • placenta praevia, an oddly positioned placenta
  • incompetent cervix,  with a risk of miscarriage or premature delivery
  • multiple fetuses

But for most of us, just like the sex pistols say, lets see a bit more Anarchy in the UK.

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